I sometimes find it amazing that when u make a change in your life how other people are affected some how. Here is what I have seen in the last little while, some people have freaked out with the fact that I'm going to change my diet, stop drinking, work out harder with trainers and just overall move forward. These are those people that I'm sure are scared and afraid to make these changes in theirs lives so they have to find fault in me doing it. I often tell my daughters that these "haters" are just jealous and they know that I will do it.
This goes all the way back to when I left my husband - got divorced - so many people went crazy - formed their own crazy opinions and reasons and had lots to say. It was years later that a few of those people apologized and now have left their spouses and understand because they too are now being criticized for what they are doing. I love the saying " PEOPLE IN GLASS HOUSES SHOULD NEVER THROW STONES".
Why can't we just be happy for people? Why is change so scary for everyone? Why, when someone wants to get better and move forward people want to hold them back. Stop being afraid of what they may accomplish and join them - be part of it - stop being scared - JUST DO IT!
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